July 21, 2026 ā 8:40 a.m.
It is a sunny morning.
Sunny side up.
Growing up, I always had a fear that nothing could work out.
Maybeā¦
part of me still believes that.
I come from a lineage of pessimism.
Or what my family would callā¦
āreality.ā
Failure always felt inevitable.
Soā¦
why try?
Iāll get to life later.
Let me just watch television.
Saving money always felt impossible.
Not because I couldnāt.
Because I never really believed I could.
So I stayed with what felt safest.
Working valet.
Being an usher at Dodger Stadium.
Working at a call center.
I never really tried to improve my finances beyond what was familiar.
Then one dayā¦
I created a bucket system.
Iām not rich.
But over the last two years Iāve managed to save more than $10,000.
That changed something.
It made me realize that maybe life doesnāt simply happen to us.
Just because I come from a lineage like mineā¦
doesnāt mean I have to keep saying yes to it.
Life will unfold the way itās going to unfold.
But if I never make a decisionā¦
Iām simply drifting with it.
Maybeā¦
life gives us just enough administrative control to steer the ship a little.
Every decision compounds over time.
Wellā¦
Iām not the smartest.
Butā¦
Iām about to drink my cup of coffee.
Have a beautiful day, world.
Question for the Reader
Has there ever been a belief you inherited that you eventually decided to question?
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I write about ordinary mornings, memories, creativity, and the quiet moments where our thinking begins to change. New reflections and original stories are published regularly.
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